Questionnaire
J. This Section Is About Initiating Sex and Sexual Communication.
If you have not had a sexual partner in the last
year, please circle 0,
skip Sections J and K, and go to Section L.
Initiating Sex means
letting your partner know (verbally or physically) your desire
for sexual activity.
Please circle the best answer for each statement.
1. I initiate sex whenever I want it.
Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree N/A
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| 1 |
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7 |
0 |
2 a. I am comfortable initiating sex with my current
or most recent partner.
Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree N/A
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| 1 |
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7 |
0 |
2b. That partner is (was) comfortable with my initiating
sexual activity.
Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree N/A
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| 1 |
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7 |
0 |
3. During sex, I am comfortable telling my partner
what I don't like or don't want (for example: "Ouch!"
or "I don't want to do that tonight")
Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree N/A
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| 1 |
2 |
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5 |
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7 |
0 |
4. During sex, I am comfortable telling my partner
what I want and like.
(for example, "Would you... " or "A little slower... "
or "That feels great.")
Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree N/A
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| 1 |
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7 |
0 |
5. During sex, I communicate my desires as often
as I want to.
Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree N/A
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0 |
6. One reason I don't communicate much during sex
is that I usually don't know what I want.
Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree N/A
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7 |
0 |
7. My partner gives me as much feedback about his/her
sexual likes and dislikes as I want.
Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree N/A
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| 1 |
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7 |
0 |
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Copyright 1998, Carol Ellison, Ph.D.
