Women's Sexualities

   By: Dr Carol Rinkleib Ellison





Generations of Women Share Intimate Secrets of Sexual Self-Acceptance

H. These Questions Are About Your Feelings During and
Immediately After Self-Stimulation and Partner Sex.

 

If you have never masturbated, start with Question 2; skip 1 and 3.


Below is a list of feelings you may have experienced during and immediately after sexual activity, either alone or with a partner.

1. The feelings from the list that I have experienced most typically during and immediately after masturbation are (check all that apply):

2. The feelings that I have experienced most often during and immediately after sex with my current or most recent partner are (check all that apply):



Self

Partner

1

Anxious

 

 

2

Aroused

 

 

3

Ashamed

 

 

4

Bored

 

 

5

Coerced

 

 

6

Confident

 

 

7

Desirable

 

 

8

Desire

 

 

9

Desired

 

 

10

Disappointed

 

 

11

Dissatisfied

 

 

12

Dominated

 

 

13

Dominating

 

 

14

Ecstasy

 

 

15

Embarrassed

 

 

16

Erotic

 

 

17

excited

 

 

18

Frustrated

 

 

19

Guilty

 

 

20

Happy

 

 

21

Helpless

 

 

22

Inadequate

 

 

23

Inhibited

 

 

24

Intense

 

 

25

Judged

 

 

26

Lonely

 

 

27

Loved

 

 

28

Loving

 

 

29

Lusty

 

 

30

Meditative

 

 

31

Merged

 

 

32

Not there

 

 

33

Obsessed

 

 

34

Passionate

 

 

35

Peaceful

 

 

36

Playful

 

 

37

Pleasured

 

 

38

Powerful

 

 

39

Pressured

 

 

40

Resentful

 

 

41

Romantic

 

 

42

Sad

 

 

43

Sated

 

 

44

Satisfied

 

 

45

Secure

 

 

46

Self-Loving

 

 

47

Sensual

 

 

48

Separate

 

 

49

Sexy

 

 

50

Spiritual

 

 

51

Successful

 

 

52

Tense

 

 

53

Tired

 

 

54

Trusting

 

 

55

Victimized

 

 

56

Vulnerable

 

 

57

Wonderful

 

 



3. If other words better describe your masturbation experiences, please write them here:

 

4. If other words better describe your sexual experiences with your current or most recent partner, please write them here:

 

5. List the numbers of up to 5 feelings from the list above (other than "satisfied") that you associate with your most satisfying sexual experiences. If you have NEVER had satisfying sexual experiences either alone or with a partner,circle 0. )

0


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The questionnaire is here for VIEWING ONLY.
Please DO NOT send your answers to me.

Copyright 1998, Carol Ellison, Ph.D.