H. These Questions Are About Your
Feelings During and
Immediately After Self-Stimulation and Partner Sex.
If you have never masturbated, start
with Question 2; skip 1 and 3.
Below is a list of feelings you may have experienced during and immediately
after sexual activity, either alone or with a partner.
1. The feelings from the list that I have experienced most typically
during and immediately after masturbation are (check all that apply):
2. The feelings that I have experienced
most often during and immediately after sex with my current or most recent
partner are (check all that apply):
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Self
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Partner
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1
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Anxious
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2
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Aroused
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3
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Ashamed
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4
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Bored
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5
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Coerced
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6
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Confident
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7
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Desirable
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8
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Desire
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9
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Desired
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10
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Disappointed
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11
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Dissatisfied
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12
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Dominated
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13
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Dominating
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14
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Ecstasy
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15
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Embarrassed
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16
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Erotic
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17
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excited
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18
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Frustrated
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19
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Guilty
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20
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Happy
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21
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Helpless
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22
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Inadequate
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23
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Inhibited
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24
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Intense
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25
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Judged
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26
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Lonely
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27
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Loved
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28
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Loving
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29
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Lusty
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30
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Meditative
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31
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Merged
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32
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Not there
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33
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Obsessed
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34
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Passionate
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35
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Peaceful
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36
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Playful
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37
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Pleasured
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38
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Powerful
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39
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Pressured
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40
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Resentful
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41
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Romantic
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42
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Sad
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43
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Sated
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44
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Satisfied
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45
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Secure
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46
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Self-Loving
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47
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Sensual
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48
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Separate
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49
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Sexy
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50
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Spiritual
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51
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Successful
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52
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Tense
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53
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Tired
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54
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Trusting
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55
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Victimized
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56
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Vulnerable
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57
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Wonderful
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3. If other words better describe your
masturbation experiences, please write them here:
4. If other words better describe your
sexual experiences with your current or most recent partner, please write them
here:
5. List the numbers of up to 5 feelings
from the list above (other than "satisfied") that you associate with
your most satisfying sexual experiences. If you have NEVER had satisfying
sexual experiences either alone or with a partner,circle 0. )
0
Remember
The questionnaire is here for VIEWING ONLY.
Please DO NOT send your answers to me.
Copyright 1998, Carol Ellison, Ph.D.